You’ve seen those people who seem to have it all together. They always seem to get the ‘lucky breaks’ in life. But there is much more to those happy, lucky and successful people. What we don’t often see is the inner work they put into creating that life sometimes envied by others.
Here are some quick tips to building the self confidence you desire:
- Start by setting YOUR OWN standards – people who have rock solid confidence, hold rock solid values. These values could relate to your personal standards, your business and spiritual values. If you believe in them, don’t sway from those values. If you know what you believe in and don’t allow circumstances or individuals to lead you astray from them, you will be happy, stronger and confident. This will show on the outside.
- Examine the INSIDE you – You may have heard it before that you are what you think about. If you think thoughts of boldness and success, you will gradually grow into those qualities. Just as when you think thoughts of peace and good will, you will experience these things outwardly in life.
- Be Kind To YOU – Many of us are our own ‘worst critic’ and this can effect our foundation of rock solid confidence. Sometimes just engaging in positive ‘self talk’ can make a huge difference. Tell yourself how proud you are of yourself for making that presentation or getting that new client or going to the gym when you didn’t feel like it. Go ahead and get a new hairstyle or treat yourself to a nice dinner with your mate or a friend.
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